Posted by Cheryl on August 21, 2002 at 12:30:21:
In Reply to: Re: lying husband-PLEASE HELP!! posted by Sue M on March 13, 2002 at 19:45:46:
I can only tell you it will get worse. You have one child now, in a few years you will have two, then three, need I go on? Please leave him but do so wisely. Start a bank acount in your name only. Have the statements sent to a friends, your place of work, or a family members. When you leave you have to have something to survive on. Do you have insurance? Can you get counseling through the insurance? It would be wise to start getting just to have someone to talk to. Even if he is "only" abusive verbally do you want your child reared this way? Do you think it will only be a mater of time before he lays a hand on you. I know all the stories, I'm sorry, I won't do it again, here is a flower to make up for it. And yes I understand love but you have to love yourself enough to treat yourself better than that.
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