Posted by Amy on May 23, 2001 at 11:58:50:
My husband Bob went to England last Dec. for a so called business trip. He wouldn't tell me where he was staying or who he was going with. He had been in London 2 months prior for business, and upon return was uncommunicative and distant in our marriage. We didn't even have sex. I could recieve no answers from him about anything, so I looked in his wallet and found a business card with a womans name and the days she was off work listed on it. To make a long story short, when he went back to Engalnd (in a sea of secrecy..) he had said that he stayed at a hotel an hour outside of London where his companies plant was. I have asked him about it several times and he has lied right to my face. Well, today I have proof that he DID stay in the hotel IN LONDON, right on the same street where that girl was working. I asked him about it on the phone, and He said that he didn't tell me the truth about where he stayed because I have snooped on him before. He is always vague and defensive when faced w/tough questions? Why won't he just tell me the truth? What can I say to get through to him that honesty is better than lying, because the lies hurt more than the affair would? Any thoughts?
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